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Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Kas in 2011

Since I’ve moved to Pune, I had heard a lot about Kas the valley of flowers. Last year, got a chance to visit the long awaited place finally. But we were not fortunate enough to get to see all type of flowers. Hence I was desperately wanting for the next year to arrive, so that the incomplete wish would be satisfied at once. After a tiring trip to Goa, visit to Kas on next weekend would have been too hectic, but the fear of repetition of last year’s incident enforced us to leave Pune and head towards Satara district eventually. This time we were visiting Kas with bikers group ‘The Bladerunnerz’.
We gathered at our meeting point in Pune at around 5 o clock. There were 12 bikes in all, heading towards the valley full of attractions. Riding at a speed of 100 was like an easy task for almost every rider among us. Fogs had covered the highway for almost whole the distance. We took a halt for small appetite, a tea and couple of Samosas. It was necessary because, up on the plateau you would not get any stall or hawkers selling any food item, as the property is not owned by Indian Government as a national heritage.

Now that we had entered Satara city, the roads were small and a bit crowd even at 8 o clock in Saturday morning. The route was fresh in mind, as I felt like it was the last month only, when we had visited Kas. The beautiful turns and long tails of roads were fascinating. Soon the point came, where you get to see flat earth on both sides and in the mid, there exists the long straight black road calling you ahead.
If one random morning, you wake in a bed of flowers, the delicate ones, how would you feel? Marvelous right? I had the same feeling, when I got down off the bike and rushed to the blanket of wild flowers. The cameras started clicking rapidly as soon as we got down. There we could see many types of wildflowers. One of them is called Mickey as its yellow color and shape matches exactly with a cartoon character ‘Mickey Mouse’. One was a very tiny flower having looks like cotton but having small bunch soft prickles as its petals. One was lavender colored cylindrical flower having many small petals. It’s really difficult to mention all of the flowers in here; hence a pictorial treat will be appropriate.
As we had reached there well before the time when weekend-rush starts flowing towards Kas, we got to see many areas easily. It rained the night before Saturday, which made the soil muddy, where vehicles could not reach. We reached such areas and enjoyed the beauty of the blanket of flowers. It was irresistible for us to click many photographs of flowers, we with flowers in background, bikes put in a semi-circle, etc. After this photo session, we moved towards the Kas lake.
Compared with the last time I visited Kas lake, the crowd was much less in number. The lake was clear like glass. We could see the soil underneath the water. As there were very new people in the trip, we took an introduction round for everyone. The riders were very well experienced ones. The pillions were pretty enthusiastic, considering it’s quite boring to sit idle on the back seat with no challenge.
After delightful visit to Kas lake, we headed back to Pune, though some of us went to visit a famous windmills in that area. The weekend was becoming used advantageously with a nice experience because of fewer crowds. Perfect trip it was!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

India : Chaos of crimes

It’s been a long time since I wrote my thoughts out; maybe around 2 months back. There was this peculiar thought going on in my mind since last few months. There might be hardly anyone who hasn’t given a thought to this particular subject. If you can get it, I am pointing out to the current situation of our country India. This is a contented topic itself and I daresay I will try to cover all the points on fire presently.
The current population of India is above 1.2 Billion, out of which, more than half the score is secured by males over females. This obviously doesn’t happen easily. People in India try so much to keep the male : female ratio as high as possible. Of course, killing a female infant or fetus is not an easy job after all. Though I don’t understand the need behind this cruel act of theirs, I presume, they are quite afraid of what if there is no one to carry on their names! They fail to understand that though they had a right to give birth to an infant, they have no right to kill her, untouched by the selfishness and immorality. Those little infants, who don’t even know that they exist in this world of humans and animals, trees and flowers, mountains and rains, water and air; are killed so brutally, that the entire human breed will get ashamed of it. There is a mismatch between the number of males and females, which will cause a natural unbalance in years to come. Is there really a need of killing those sleeping beauties?
When talking about the male-female ratio, it struck to my mind “am I forgetting about the rape cases happening every other day in India???”. Rape .. one of the bold topics to discuss. A girl, following her routine, is stopped by passerby and is raped. I mean, it might not have occurred in her wild dreams, that she will be raped by an unknown/known person. Who gave this right to that inhumanly person to empty out his energy on someone weaker than him? Have we ever heard female raping males? Then who has made it a law, that males can rape females? In certain areas of India this has been a regular activity for the residents and their senses have gone numb now!
The reason behind these rape cases is not lack of education. This is an attribute of a person which if not directed correctly, takes an inhuman avatar of abuse. Certainly, education can help in this case. Our country is no more like it was 100 or 200 years ago. The number of schools and colleges is increased like anything, in last few years. Considering the population of India, it was needed. But are we getting the right education that we are supposed to be getting? Are the children watched and cared the way they are supposed to? Are the teachers aware of what exactly and how the subjects can be taught? I guess, here is where experience speaks. In years passed, at a small age also, we used to distinguish between intelligent and teaching-just-for-the-sake-of-it teachers. So, the question remains the same.. are the children LEARNING?
They say when you don’t get paid enough, the work that you do, automatically demotes. Now it’s a common talk among us all, how much corruption are we witnessing in India daily? Government offices, police stations, RTOs, hospitals are all defaulters, but I was amazed to see taking bribe to get ‘darshan’ in temples! People escaping off the actual amount of income tax they are supposed to pay, are in a way missing on their duties towards their nation. Of course, it’s not a secret now that our ministers assume that, the tax paid by citizens is ministers’ property. So why would people prompt themselves to pay taxes? Why wouldn’t they use the same money to improve their lifestyle?
It’s been 20 years since India’s sixth Prime Minister Mr. Rajiv Gandhi was killed in a planned suicidal bomb blast. One of them was Afzal Guru. Even after finding him guilty, our government is not able to hang him till death. A mad man called Ajmal Kasab, who fired bullets on people waiting for a local train to arrive, in Mumbai and was held later, is yet enjoying his luncheons and suppers in the jail. Our poor government and its rules are strong enough to keep him alive, till he completes jubilees of his age. Many murders’ and rapes’, and theft cases are pending in the high court’s as well as supreme courts for years. The accused and victims die while they wait for the verdict. Are laws and government authorities incapable to punish the guilty? Or are there some more important things going on in our country than our safety? As I am writing this, I got news just now, about the bomb blast in front of Delhi High Court. Though an alert was given to Delhi government, just because of carefree attitude of our government we faced another murder incident of some innocent people. Who is responsible for this?
Have you ever seen open air toilets? If not, just visit a railway tracks in major cities like Mumbai, Delhi. Slums in Mumbai are the worst thing in India. People from different states come in search of a job or business. Nobody wants to die of hunger, everybody wants to earn handsome amount of money no matter what. When their needs do not get satisfied in their native places, because of lack of employment and industries, they arrive in cities like Mumbai, Delhi, with their belongings including wife and children. And then no road or corner in the city is left unexplored. You would get lacs of such humans on the roads in the city, though I wonder whether they really should be called as humans, because the life they live is worse than stray dogs. Why this need of migration from native to unfamiliar state occurs in the first place? Why their own state government is not capable enough to create an employment for such people then and there itself? This huge population in cities does not care about the cleanliness, that’s the reason why they throw paper cups, wrappers, papers, plastic bags and such dust anywhere other than dustbin. I have seen thousands of people throwing things out of train and bus, spitting on the roads, asking their children to throw the garbage out of the moving vehicle. If children are subjected to this kind of tuition from their own parents and relatives, what a responsible citizen the child will become won’t he? People hear tales of beauty of foreign countries from others, and they forget the fact that, we can also make our country beautiful by keeping it clean and maintain some discipline.
The unemployment in small cities and villages lead some of the weak minded people to robbery. Every other day, we get news of theft in a jeweler’s shops, flats, offices and much more. I mean, a person is earning from a business and feeding his children, and somebody suddenly comes out of the blue and grabs the money and stuff, and just goes away? How the heart of the victim would feel after letting rot the garden that he had flourished with hard work? Chain snatching has become a daily activity of some minors who are facing problem of insufficient pocket money. Amazing, isn’t it?
Every nation has all types of personalities, weird, arrogant, selfish, innocent, leaders, firm, criminal and many more. But in spite of such things, many of them have progressed so dramatically and they are now known as Developed countries. Then what are we lacking in? Is it education, morality, leadership, money or anything else? It’s a high time for us to find out the answer of this question, or else the day is not so far, when we all will be either dead in a bomb  blast or killed for money, or dead in a long term disease. Don’t just say you are an Indian, but be one! Jai Hind Jai Bharat!

Monday, July 18, 2011

Welcome Client !!!

It was a relaxing time since last few days. Less work and eventually more time to pass. So attending team meeting was also considered as a kill-time activity, though hard to believe! But this time it wasn't the general so-called-updates meeting. There was something new to hear from the lead this time. She announced to us that our client is planning to come to India for a general visit. Now this came as a shock to me, as I had never expected clients coming just for a casual visit. There must be something in his mind, I thought. Maybe a new project or extra work for that matter. Thinking about his purpose would no way matter to anybody, as I was just another employee of my HUGE company. So who cares! Definitely, my lead had started planning all the activities on those two special days of his stay here in India.

Finally the day came when he arrived in India and eventually came to visit our office. Many of us hadn't seen him till then and for that matter none of our clients. A very pleasant personality! An only phrase struck to my mind, the moment I saw him. A 6 feet tall well built handsome guy in his thirties. Certainly, he was very smart, intelligent and a person with great presence of mind. An eternal smile on his face was making him look better, I would say. In his mid thirties though, he had a charm of a guy in his twenties. We all welcomed him and his colleague, who is Indian, with bouquets, had a small talk with them and left for our cubicles. As it was a lunch time and he was supposed to be taking his lunch and meeting with our group manager and other managers, he postponed our pre-planned discussions to next day. It was simply postponing today's death to tomorrow!!! Of course, a face-to-face talk with a client was something new for me. In my entire career, I had never seen my client, leave alone talking with them.

Apart from this we were actually looking forward for the dinner session with him in following evening. We had chosen one of the best ambient restaurant for him. It was buffet dinner, except the starters part. The starters were there on our table, kept on a barbeque for getting roasted. In all this happenings, the expressions on his face were remarkable. They were a mixture of curiosity, happiness and amaze! It was his first visit to India, but he already knew many of the INDIAN things, right from places to visit to typical Indian food. He was amazed to see the process of cooking 'tandoor roti'. He was marveled when he tasted the 'kheer'. And he was the happiest person among us when he tasted "chat" on the chat counter. He couldn’t stop talking about his love for Indian food. He wanted to know each and everything about Indian food in a span of time as short as 2 hours. We all were eager to answer him as well as enjoyed the same. He wanted to know the types of fishes we eat, the spices used for preparation of fish and chicken, the name for lady's finger/Okra, how biryani is prepared and much more! Not just the food recipes but he also wanted to know the proper way to have lunch/dinner in Maharashtra. When told to him that in Maharashtra first rice-daal, then roti-vegetable and in the end rice-daal is the general sequence of having meal, he was extremely exclaimed. He got lost in the calculation of overall calories after that. When asked for dessert, he was actually forbidden of the thought of having anything after that stomach-full meal. We insisted him and finally he agreed. But he didn’t regret it, as he just loved all the sweets including typically Indian ras-malai and kheer. History repeated again, he asked about the recipes of both the items. His curiosity was like that of a 1 year old child's. Though after the dinner "meetha paan" was must, we couldn't find paanwala there, hence dropped the plan of it and returned back to home.

The next day's schedule was an Gavin-all-the-time one. A meeting with him which continued for 2 hours, but which was scheduled for just an hour. A lunch with him and the last day's postponed individual meeting with him too. So this second day was expected to be eventful and so it was too. As per the agenda, he took a meeting with us all and I was simply marveled by his skills and brilliance. His knowledge and way of presenting the same were simply to be praised. He kind of held his audience's minds in his excellent talks. The time passed faster, though he was speaking of upcoming projects, which would be so boring at any other given time. Soon the meeting was over and it was time for lunch.

Now, interestingly the lunch was ordered in our office itself, so as to save time and fit all the scheduled things in well manner. On a special request from our dear guest, his favorite "paneer bhurji" was ordered. The day before he had talked about this well known food item, which we are way too much habitual of. I was shocked to see the glimpse of satisfaction in his eyes, after the 'bhurji' was served in his plate. I thought I also saw a smile filled with pleasure, after he had its first bite of paneer and roti. I must mention here his typical way of pronouncing 'Roti' was a cute one. In the end of the meal, when Gulab Jamun were served to him, he didn’t know what the dish was called as. As soon as he came to its name, he was so happy to eat the gulab jamuns, as if he came to India just for those 2 tempting balls of maava and sugar syrup!

The lunch was followed by the individual meeting sessions with him which went as smooth as a person talking with his/her colleague whom he knows since years. It was simply a pleasure to talk with him. His modesty and generosity were remarkable. One thing I can’t resist myself from sharing to you is his love for his wife and daughter. Till date how much we have seen in films and news, people not just in foreign countries but recently in India too, are known for their divorces, lack of chemistry and many such not-so-good incidents. In such a time, here is a person, who, when away from his family, is thinking about them continuously. Not just his wife and daughter, but he didn't forget to mention his parents and their overall bonding. He knew what 'love' and 'care' means. Here I was seeing a man with respect and decency, with humor and fun, with talent and endowment. He might not be the perfect person in this world, but I felt he was just across the border of perfectness!

Saturday, March 12, 2011

One more year's passing



16th March, 2011 is coming up! There I go again! One more year added in my age. Days passed so swift and nights swifter. It seems as if last was the month I celebrated my birthday and it again arrived so soon! So many things done and many were yet to be done in the whole year which passed. As I look back, I can see countless moments of celebration and few worth remembering, moments those drastically changed many lives and those which never mattered for some, places visited and parties attended. Much to tell and so much to describe!


My last birthday was co-incidentally falling on the same day of “Gudhi-Padva”. As I do it every year, I made many resolutions on that day too; e.g. being regular in gym, more outings, be expert in cooking, movies, music, etc! Today when the year is over, not all, but I would say, I was successful in achieving some of them! Thinking of having a quick look at the passing year, I would merrily write my experiences!


As my motto says, excursions keep your spirit and smile alive. In the beginning of month of April I spent a weekend in Mahabaleshwar with my friends. A bike trip in the land of strawberries was much refreshing. The sun in the sky was trying to scorch people on earth, whilst we were happily eating stomach full of strawberries free of cost, as there was a strawberry festival going on in the Mapro Garden. Following the trend I had a bike trip to Mumbai on forthcoming weekend, only to realize some relations are to be preserved and nurtured, for they are the fuel for the flame of your life.


The month of May was started by a joyous visit to much-appreciated Chokhi-Dhani on Maharashtra Day. A series of altogether exciting events happened that day! The performances from the staff of Chokhi- Dhani were worth remembering. A plate full of delicious food items is their specialty too. I indeed had a great time.


Soon the monsoon arrived and for people like me it’s a genuine treat offered by nature. With the promising heavy footsteps of it, the dreams of more outings were shaping up in our minds. We started with the trek to fort “Purandar”. It’s definitely a pleasure to go on trekking in rains on bikes. It was an eventful trek that we had. Not knowing the definite route to reach the top of the fort, we were climbing up and down several times and eventually arriving on the same paths. Finally after asking couple of co- trekkers, we found the correct route. I can still feel the mist and fog experienced that day. A ghat road with curves and misty rains pouring the rain drops fondly on them. A photogenic view offered by the fort and its surroundings was surely captured in our minds.


Monsoon in Maharashtra is presumed as a season of god and festivals. One of them is Ganeshotsav. This year too we visited “Five Ganesh idols of honor” in Pune. To avoid the crowd and mess, we selected a night time. A calm and assuring face of Lord Ganesha seemed to be blessing people with satisfaction and happiness. This Ganeshotsav also inspired me to learn and memorize the Atharvashirsham, which now I daily pray to the lord with.


This year or its journey, so to speak, was worth remembering, for one transformation of my life from one state to another, took place. The time was pressing and a change in job profile was needed. Luckily (read unluckily) I got an opportunity and claimed it for success. So this year’s Diwali festival went in designing hopes and ambitions to be marked in this new errand. Oft they say all that glitters is not gold. The new opportunity, though offered money, was not so challenging. All the excitement and designs were blown off. But sometimes, you find blooms in thatches too! So did I find a friend for life time. She whiffed off my pains by her convincing thoughts and sweet talks.


Meanwhile we were consistent in our outing trend. We had journey to Kas in Satara district. It has got  seasonal wild flowers in the month of September and October.We did visit fort Raigad in the October end. An excellent but a tiring trip it was. Friends who have fled abroad for studies or work, when came back for a visit, joined us for a trip to Alibaug. Now an unforgettable event happened here for the 1st time. We got robbed for money, without our knowing. This was quite disheartening, but it didn’t deteriorate the fun by even a single percent. In the month of February we arranged not just one but two trips; one to Daman and another to Bhimashankar. Both of them were equally great and happening. And now when the year is coming to an end, another heartening this has happened. I have found another opportunity to venture on a new path of my career.


There were many nice movies seen in this gone year; some worth watching and some not to be seen even a single time. The number of Marathi plays seen was greater than the one for last year. Not to mention, all the plays were worth watching. I ought to mention one more thing here; I got my second niece Gauri this year, who is way too sweet and adorable.


You don’t get anything you desire for, they say. It took these many years for me to realize this. But yes, hope for better future keeps your lamp of life glowing. This year was seemed to be dedicated for friendship and much more. I rejoiced with old friends, tighten the bonds with present friends and hope to find new friends, for friends are the only ones, without whom my life reduces to naught! I learned lot many things in this wonderful year. I learned to laugh out loud for no reason, to love and care unselfishly, to take wise decisions, to cook new recipes and much more. The last days of this fantastic year are now passing and waving me a good – bye. They presented me with new hopes and desires for the upcoming year. May I be successful in achieving things that I seek for. Amen!

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Grow Up Wise


It might be too early to write this! Because when you are in your twenties, the world around is as jubilant and carefree as you are! I am no exception too! If given a chance I would also plan and execute a trip in an hour or spend a quality time with loved ones; or can just go around for shopping; try new recipes and what not! Lot many things to do in a short span of time! Not that difficult, right? Not just me, many of us are as enthusiastic as I am or maybe more! But when this age of enthusiasm starts passing by and we slowly start bending towards the ‘old age’ physically as well as mentally, it’s certainly not easy to accomplish the aforementioned things!

The other day I saw a very old man, maybe in his 80s, begging on a crowded street! Surely, money would have pleased him temporarily at that time. Even I did what a socially responsible person was expected to do! He might not be too rich or a well organized person in his young age, which probably caused him to spend his last days on streets and suffer much more than he can afford. But if we peer around us properly, we can figure out many such men and women, who unluckily endure much more than their capacity and finally abide for their last day on the earth. I wish to give it a try to find the root cause of it.

From my personal experience, I can surely announce that parents are 0% selfish, when it comes to bright future of their children. Right from their nourishment, education, medicines to their weddings, jobs etc; parents support financially as well as emotionally to the children till their last breathe! While doing this, many of them easily or conveniently forget the ‘future planning’ and blindly go on providing money to their loving children. Till their children grow up, parents are to get retired. And it’s a well known fact that, after retirement what you get is just peanuts. And these peanuts, when kept in a convenient black box called banks’ fixed deposit, return you hardly few bucks to spend rest of the life. A surprising fact is that their children become too busy to support them financially or emotionally.

Another thing which I perceived is there are some people, though the number is small, who trust others blindly. This hesitance to thoroughly examine the case eventually brings a person in peril. Not just relatives or friends, but own children of a man sometimes don’t care for him too! Sad but true! The one who nurtured and fed them become trivial. The so called friends or relatives become age enemies in cases which are like of these. Is money worth these fights? Some may answer ‘No’ and some would go with even ‘Yes’.

If money was not that important, why would have we such a long discussion? Definitely, money is important, but not at the cost of lovely relationships! It takes ages to grow bond with people and a single word is more than enough to break a strong bond too! Knowingly or unknowingly we oft face such situations and easily ignore them, because they might not be happening to us. But you never know; the situation might be waiting at your doorstep to knock on your door!

One more reason that I strongly feel causes these misfortunes is luxury. A huge score of people has frenzy of luxury! The basic requirements to live are changed from ‘food, clothes and shelter’ to ‘fast food, branded clothes, posh house, big car, expensive hobbies, etc’ .. The list is unending. Luxuries at young age sometimes leave poverty in old age. Nine out of ten guys, when asked about their future plans, answer that they wish to buy a big house and a brand new car. It doesn’t matter if they don’t have money to buy these expensive objects, as co-operative banks are at their service anytime. Short term planning might fail in this case to fulfill the old age requirements.
There might be lot many reasons other than the ones discussed above. But as I said earlier, it’s too early for me to discuss this. Experiences and theory are way different from each other. Though not everything, old age planning is worth a shot! For it will be the only time of your life, when you will be all alone, in the crowd of humans and emotions! So don’t you fail to plan, or you may plan to fail!


Mother Earth


Green was her stole
And blue gown she wore
blue were her eyes too
that all used to adore

She was the queen of all
And proud she felt
Behold the beauty of hers
before her all knelt

Alas! Moments of happiness
Didn’t last long
taken for granted she was
caused it all go wrong

The gown was ruined
with muddy colors
And stole was severed
for even a single dollar

Soon she looked a begger
and was cared no more
Her kids were unthankful
still them she bore

The sun and moon are brazening 
upon mounds and ridges of her
Maybe trying to console
for no escape is there

Did she ask too much?
Was her love so folly?
Nothing that she expected
save being jolly

Swards turned thatching
and seas are now gutters
such a treachery they played
wearily she utters

With hope she revolves now
that they would pay regards
for time is pressing and
more are the hazards

Saturday, February 5, 2011

वेज हाक्का नूडल्स


दुपारच्या जेवणाची वेळ झाली आहे. सकाळचा नाश्ता करायला न मिळाल्यामुळे तुम्हाला कडकडून भूक लागली आहे. अशातच तुम्हाला गुप्त खबर मिळते कि तुमच्या हापिसातल्या खानावळवाल्याने (खानावळ हा योग्य शब्द आहे, कँटीन म्हणाव अस थोर पक्षी:चविष्ट काम काही त्या कँटीन वाल्याने केलेले नाहीये ) काही नवीन (?) पदार्थ विकायला सुरुवात केलेली आहे. हर्षाची लहर मनात उठून तुम्ही थेट त्या कँटीनच्या दिशेने चालायला सुरुवात करता. पोटातले कावळे ४ मिनिटांच अंतर १ मिनिटात पार करायला उद्युक्त करतात. खबर मिळाल्याप्रमाणे खरोखरच तुम्हाला तिथल्या फलकावर, जिथे आधी मोजून ४ नावे दिसायची, एकदम ३० नावे दिसल्यावर तुमच्या आनंदाला पारावर उरत नाही! हि आनंदाची बातमी देणार्याचे मनोमन आभार मानून तुम्ही एक एक पदार्थच नाव वाचायला सुरुवात करता. नावं ओळखीची जरी असली, तरी हापिसातल्या या खानावळीमध्ये पहिल्यांदाच चाखायला मिळणार म्हणून मग तुम्हाला अगदी काय घेऊ आणि काय नको असे झालेले असते. त्यातल्या त्यात उगीच फार "रिस्क" नको म्हणून तुम्ही "वेज हक्क नूडल्स" मागवता.
ऑर्डर यायला बराच वेळ आहे म्हणून मग आजूबाजूला रटाळ चेहरे करून बसलेले आणि तितक्याच रटाळ गप्पा मारणारे कर्मचारी बघत बघत हळूच त्यांच्या पुढ्यात ठेवलेल्या प्लेट्स कडे देखील पाहून घेता. नक्कीच या कँटीन वाल्याचा धंदा एकदम जोरात सुरु झाला आहे अशी तुमची खात्री पटते. कारण प्रत्येकाने त्याच्याकडचा एक तरी नवीन पदार्थ घेतलेला असतो. तुम्ही आपले मनात खुश! बर्याच दिवसांनी हापिसात काहीतरी नवीन आणि चांगल खायला मिळेल या आशेने!
"मॅडम, वेज हक्क नूडल्स रेडी!" कँटीनवाल्याचा चीरकलेला आवाज येतो. सकाळपासून लागलेली भूक शेवटी मिटणार या आनंदात चटकन ती प्लेट घेऊन तुम्ही येता. पहिल्यांदाच हक्का नूडल्स पिवळ्या रंगाचे पाहत असता, मनात शंकेची पाल चुकचुकते. पण 'असेल काहीतरी चविष्ट! बघूया तरी खाउन' अस म्हणत पहिला घास घेता. खाताना काय माहित का पण डोळे मिटले जातात. कदाचित पुढे येणाऱ्या प्रसंगाची खात्री करण्यासाठी ते पुन्हा उघडता यावेत, या साठी असेल! तोंडांत तो पहिला घास गेल्या गेल्या जाणवते "अरे! मी कांदे पोहे का खाते आहे! मी तर 'वेज हक्क नूडल्स' मागवले होते!". आपण नक्की नूडल्सच उचलून आणले आहेत न याची खात्री करण्यासाठी तुम्ही डोळे नीट उघडून पुन्हा पुन्हा पाहता. दुर्दैवाने ते नूडल्सच असतात! फक्त असे नूडल्स कि जे कुणी बारीक किलकिल्या डोळ्यांच्या त्या परदेशी लोकांनी पहिले असते, तर फीट येऊन तिथेच आडवे झाले असते. कांदेपोहे बनवण्याच्या कृतीत फार काही नाही, पण फक्त भिजवलेले पोह्यांऐवजी उकडलेली हक्का नूडल्स टाकले असावेत. बाकी अगदी राई, जिर्याच्या फोडणीपासून हळद, मिरची आणि भरपूर कांदा इथपर्यंत साहित्यात तसूभर देखील फरक नसतो, बर का! तुमच्या मनात येते, त्या नूडल्स तशाच उचलून कँटीन मॅनेजर च्या तेलकट केसांवर ओताव्यात! पण रागावर तथा हातांवर संयम ठेवून तुम्ही मुकाट डोळे मिटून त्याच कांदेपोहे कम नूडल्स चा एक एक घास तोंडात घेता! कारण पोटातले कावळे अजून शांत झालेले नसतात. आजूबाजूला सहज लक्ष जाते आणि डोक्यात लक्ख प्रकाश पडतो! मघाच्या 'त्या' रटाळ चेहर्यांमागच गूढ आता तुम्हाला एकदम उकलत.
मनातल्या मनात त्या मॅनेजर च्या कुळाचा उद्धार करत त्याचे पैसे चुकते करून तुम्ही चूपचाप कँटीनबाहेर पडता. आणि त्या क्षणाला हातात तलवार नसली तरी जिभेच्या धनुष्यावर शब्दांचे बाण चढवून जीव घेण्यासाठी तुम्हाला शोध असतो फक्त एकाच व्यक्तीचा .. ज्याच्याकडून तुम्हाला 'ती' गुप्त खबर मिळाली होती!

आई!


रविवारची सुंदर सकाळ. त्यात शनिवार रविवार सुट्टी म्हणून मस्त ताणून दिली होती. दुपारी १२ वाजता अस्मादिकांनी डोळे उघडले आणि उठून हॉल मध्ये येऊन tv लावला आनि  सोफ्यावर पुन्हा पसरले. मी उठले हे पाहताच आईने ब्रश करून चहा घेण्याचा तगादा लावला. मी तिच्या मनासारखे केले, पण कंटाळलेल्या चेहऱ्याने . चहा पिऊन पुन्हा tv  बघण्यात मग्न झाले. तितक्यात माझी नजर आईकडे गेली. ती माझ्याकडेच येत होती. तिच्या आवडीची कुठलीशी मराठी लिका  मी लावावी अशी तिची इच्छा होती. मी तिचे तेही म्हणणे ऐकले आणि मालिका लावून "मी भली आणि माझा कम्प्युटर भला" या तत्वावर पुन्हा आत निघून गेले. पण थोड्याच वेळात मला कळले कि आई ती मालिका काही पाहत नाहीये. याचे कारण विचारले असता आतून उत्तर आले, " आत बाहेर इतक्या फेर्या होत आहेत, कि मधले मधले सीन पाहायला मिळत आहेत". यावर मी निरुत्तर झाले, पण डोक्यात एक विचारचक्र सुरु झाले.
 
आई.. एक अविरत चालणार यंत्रच जणू. पहाटे पहाटे उठून नवर्यासाठी किवा मुलासाठी डब्बा बनवणे हे आपले आद्यकर्तव्य  असल्याप्रमाणे चुकता लवकर उठणे. आणि तो डब्बा  बनवण्यासाठीची तयारी आदल्या दिवशीच करून ठेवणे. त्यांना सकाळी जाण्यापूर्वी चहा बनवून देणे, स्वतः मात्र "मी घेईन नंतर" अस उत्तर देऊन चटकन दुसरी कुठली तरी कामे करण्यास निघून जाणेसगळ्यांच्या आंघोळ्या  आटोपल्यानंतर कपडे धुणे. ते करून होते होते तोच लगेच जेवणाची तयारी. त्यातही गंमत अशी कि घरी कुणी पाहुणे येणार असतील, तर त्यांच्याकरता खास जेवण अन्यथा, केलीय सकाळी डब्ब्याला भाजी तीच होईल दुपारच्या जेवणाला असे म्हणून वेळ मारून नेणे. जेवणे आटपून दुपारची झोप घेण्या ऐवजी शिवणकाम करण्यात कुठला आनंद मिळत असेल बरे? कुठे शर्टाच निघालेलं बटन लाव, कुठे इस्त्रीच कर, कुठे साफ सफाईच कर! जरा म्हणून आराम करण्याची इच्छा नाही; किंबहुना वेळच नाही. कामे आतापाता  आटपता संध्याकाळ झाली म्हणजे मग परत रात्रीच्या जेवणाची तयारी. आणि हे असे चक्र वर्षानुवर्ष सुरूच.
शनिवार रविवारी जगाला सुट्टी असली तर आईला काही सुट्टी नसते. तिची काम सुरूच असतात. बर नुसती  कामेच नाही तर कुटुंबियांची आजारपणे, दुखणी खुपणी, हेहि बघणारी आईच. रात्री खोकल्याची उबळ आल्यावर आपल्या तोंडात गुळाचा तुकडा देणारी आईच. सासरहून माहेरी आलेल्या लेकीला आराम करता यावा म्हणून तिची उठ बस करण्यापासून तिच्या समोर महाराणीसारखे ताट ठेवणारी आईच. मुलाने  पहिल्या पगारातून घेतलेल्या साडीवर आनंदाश्रुंचे थेंब ओघळणारी आई! प्रचंड कष्ट करणाऱ्या आपल्या नवऱ्याला सुख दु:खात साथ देणारी आई. मुलांना खूप शिकता यावे म्हणून दागिने विकण्यास देखील तयार होणारी ती लक्ष्मीसम आई. स्वतःच्या तरुण मुलीची छेड काढणारयाची बकोट धरून त्याच्या कानशिलात लगावाणारी  ती दुर्गेसम आई. तिला त्रास होऊ नये म्हणून "मला डब्बा नकोय आज" असे सांगितले तरी "बाहेरचे कशाला खायला हवे" असे म्हणत डब्बा बनवून बॅग मध्ये ठेवणारी ती प्रेमळ आई. दु:खात आधार म्हनून  आठवणारी आणि सुखात वाटेकरी म्हणून आठवणारी ती एकमेवाद्वितीय अशी आई!
असे म्हणतात कि जगात देव सगळ्यांसाठी तातडीने धावून जाऊ शकत नाही, म्हणून त्याने आई बनवली! देवाचे खूप खूप आभार कि त्याने इतकी अमूल्य अशी स्वतःची प्रतिमा या पृथ्वीतलावर पाठवली आहे. सर्वगुणसंपन्न अशा माझ्या आईला माझे कोटी कोटी प्रणाम!